It seems that many moms have the I know best attitude simply because they had children before you. Many neglect the uniqueness that each child brings to each family. Siblings are not guaranteed to all have the same easy going personality just because the first child was an angel. Some children are difficult and it seems that people would rather blame the parents instead of looking at the uniqueness of each child. There is more than one way to raise children. What worked for grandma doesn’t mean it is going to work for you and your children. Few people are willing to accept this and instead try to battle you on your parenting ways as if you are purposely trying to keep your child wild. I personally raise my children as best as I can and with the help of reading and trying to learn as I go along. I refuse to use the one size fits all when raising my kids.